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I'm on this site because while being vegan isn't the only thing I need in common with a partner, it's one of the biggies to really be able to be myself & be comfortable around the person I care about. Ethical vegan since 15. It's my whole lifestyle and not just what I eat.

I'm a progressive person who cares deeply about causes and political issues, & also someone who values making time for family and friends. (My family is multi-racial & includes GLBT people, so an appreciation of differences & intersectionality is helpful.) I'd like to be a parent in future, which is the other reason I'd want to partner with someone who shares the same ethics. Family includes my rescue critters, so I'm looking for someone who would love having a dog & a bunch of cats around. Joyful chaos and all that jazz.

Mainly I'm looking to meet someone who would respect me as an equal & a friend (not just looking for a younger woman or "Miss Right Now" - yes I saw that in a real profile). A guy who would enjoy both a quiet geeky night at home & a travel adventure to new lands. I've lived & traveled abroad a lot and speak more than one language so I'm open to cross-cultural matches, as long as there's not a conservative family or required religion in the mix.

Basically, I value giving, kindness and respect and am looking to receive the same. Someone who knows that every day isn't like the first time you meet or your early dates, but knows that's fine because that means we're there for each other as we change and grow. I'm a straight talker so I appreciate honesty, and substance over style. If you love Star Trek, Prince, alt comedy, dancing &/or being gloriously goofy together, that'd be the icing on the proverbial cake!

I dig guys who read the profile instead of just checking my photos. Hopefully you're a smart guy who likes my mind & interests too.

(And you're not into Ayn Rand, natch ;)

Virgo

Slim

5' 5 (1.65 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Never Married

No

Yes

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Light Brown

Cat, Dog

No

College Degree

Full-time

Other

Alone, With Pet(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Socially

Nerd

Comedic, Observant, Strange

Arts & Crafts, Camping, Dancing, Dining, Family, Movies, Music, Photography, Reading, Travel, Volunteering

Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things

Goofy

Not Religious

Never

Very Liberal

Do the least harm and the most good.

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Obscure

Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Animation

Blues, Classical, Country, Dance, Folk, Jazz, Latin, Pop, Punk, Reggae, Rap, Rock, Soul

Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, Humor, Mystery, News, Supernatural, Science Fiction

Empathy, Humor, Intelligence, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

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