Ryan

Music is my compass.
It helps me relax, focus, and grow. I play piano and sing — probably more than I should. But when you’re in my life, I promise you’ll get almost as much attention as my piano... almost. If you play or sing, even better. Let’s make music together — literally or metaphorically.

Let's go on adventures — the everyday and the epic.
We could start with a museum or garden, then move on to cruises, camping, , safaris, or even temple treasure hunts. (I'm only half joking.) But honestly, the real treasure I hope to find is you.

My main passion is growth — mental, emotional, spiritual.
I read widely, think deeply, and love conversations that stretch the mind. If you’re on a lifelong learning journey, we’ll get along beautifully.

🌱 I care about kindness — to people, animals, and the planet.
Bonus points if you're vegetarian or vegan — or open to it. I care deeply about animals and would love a partner who shares (or is open to) this compassion.

What I value most:
Feeling loved. Feeling emotionally safe.
You don’t have to be perfect — just warm, genuine, and ready to build something honest. Bonus points if you're the affectionate type who gives as freely as she receives. That said, I also I value personal space as essential to keeping a relationship healthy and strong. I have strong independent tendencies. If you appreciate balance and independence as much as I do, we’ll get along great.

I’ve raised two wonderful daughters who are now thriving adults. Being a father has brought me joy beyond words — and I’m open to experiencing that again. I’d see any future child as a blessing.

By day, I lead a brilliant team of analysts and engineers.
It’s nerdy and intense — and I love it. Life’s been good to me, and I’m in a stable, secure place. But now? I’m looking for something deeper.

Spiritually open.
I vibe with open-hearted seekers — Buddhists, agnostics, progressive Christians, or anyone on a path of personal growth. I value science and intuition, logic and soul. I also appreciate the importance of space and independence in a relationship — it helps love breathe and flourish.

Libra

Fit

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Not At Home

Not Sure

Calves

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Brown

Yes

Concern for animal welfare

Extremely

10+ years

University Degree

Full-time

Computers / Electronic

Director of Data Science

More Than $150,000USD

Alone

All Is Calm

No

No

Brain

Friendly, Observant, Reserved

Camping, Music, Reading, Religion / Spirituality

Extreme Sports, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book

Off-road trail ride, or a museum--I'm flexible.

Ball room dancing. I didn't say I'm good at it; I just want to try.

Friendly

Spiritual But Not Religious

Once A Week

Liberal

Nirvana!

I Don't Like Tv

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance

Classical, Electronic, Pop

Business, Fiction, History, Instructional, Philosophy, Satire, Technical

Camping

Empathy, Good Looks, Intelligence, Sensitivity

Looking for an educated, intelligent lady, on a spiritual path seeking to improve the qualities of her mind.

Also yoga; I like women who do yoga!

Date, Intimate, Committed